This morning a friend shared an article about “Breadcrumbing”. See www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/communication-success/202202/5-signs-b...

Yesterday, a friend of mine shared a funny story with me that further illustrates the natural responses that other human beings...

These days I find myself often thinking about the characteristics of partners. Those who in good faith have entered a relationship with...

Of recent times, my mind has been playing with the idea of Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA). It is thought that this plays a part in...

Always in the car is when I have my best thoughts. I chat with myself all the way to wherever I’m going, wishing I could jot down the...

While on my journey today I encountered fog. There were warning signs, suggestions to turn on hazard lights, but perhaps the density had...

By Carol Grigg (September 2017) I want to talk about the vitriolic dump. Frequently, either at ASPIA meetings or in personal counselling...

As the year comes to an end and we face end-of-year events, celebrations and holidays that don’t always go smoothly, perhaps there are a...

By Carol Grigg (October 2016) Recently I was reminded of that feeling of being like in a head-lock when negotiating the daily happenings...

In Nola’s presentation (February and September ASPIA partner support group meetings) she shares some really interesting things about...

By Carol Grigg (August 2016) I’m becoming increasingly concerned at how many stories I’ve been hearing where partners are actually...